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How Overfunctioning in Leadership Hides in High-Performing Teams

August 20, 2026

I spent thirty years reading behavior for a living, first as a financial statement auditor, then as a forensic accountant investigating white-collar crime. That training taught me to spot the exact point where a person’s effort stops producing results and starts producing errors. I could see it in my team from across a room. I…

Overfunctioning in Leadership Looks Like Success Until It Doesn’t

August 14, 2026

Overfunctioning in leadership rarely announces itself as a problem. It looks like the person everyone wants running the meeting: composed, tireless, always the one with a plan. That is exactly what let Jeff Johnston run a wealth management practice, eventually managing hundreds of millions of dollars in client assets, for over three decades while carrying…

Imposter Syndrome in Successful Women Leaders: Why Credentials Don’t Fix It

August 7, 2026

I spent thirty-two years building a career that proved my expertise. Credentials, cases that headlined the news, a repeat client who came back specifically asking for me to lead the next investigation, a firm whose own tagline was Experts with Impact. And for almost all of it, I could not say the word “expert” about…

When You’re the Calm One in the Room: How Composure Becomes a Survival Pattern in Leadership

July 30, 2026

There is a version of survival mode leadership that looks nothing like struggling. It looks like calm. It looks like competence. It looks like the person everyone calls when things fall apart — and who answers every time, dispatches the right people, notifies the right chain, and holds the room together. From the outside: completely…

What Feedback Tools Miss When They Measure Leadership Behavior

July 24, 2026

I spent thirty years reading behavior under pressure, first as a forensic investigator tracing evidence back to a root cause, later as a leader turning that same lens on myself. What I learned applies directly to how organizations try to develop the leaders who cost them the most: the ones who can’t delegate, the ones…

People-Pleasing at Work: What Codependency Teaches Us About Leadership

July 16, 2026

A woman sits across from her boss in his first week of trusting her with the truth. He says, “I need someone to be honest with me.” And in her head, before she can stop it, a different sentence forms: there is no way in hell I am going to be honest with this man.…

Scarcity Hoarding in Leadership: When the Work Environment Activates Survival Patterns

July 10, 2026

Most leadership behavior problems are diagnosed where they appear: in the room. In the meeting. In the 360 feedback. In the team dynamics that don’t work. What rarely gets examined is where those behaviors came from — and why the work environment so reliably makes them worse. This post explores two leadership patterns I observed…

When Empathy Is a Survival Skill: How Unsafe Environments Shape Empathic Leadership

July 2, 2026

Some of the most effective leaders I know share a skill that no business school taught them: the ability to walk into a room and feel everything. Every tension, every unspoken frustration, every shift in mood. It reads as emotional intelligence. It gets praised in performance reviews. And it was learned in an environment where…

Emotional Triggers at Work: What Leadership Reactions Are Really Costing Your Team

June 26, 2026

A framework for understanding why some leaders’ reactions feel disproportionate to the moment, and what it costs everyone around them. Summary Emotional triggers at work show up in leadership as reactions that don’t match the size of the situation in front of them. A missed deadline produces anger that belongs to something much older than…

How Leadership Behavior Sets the Tone for Your Entire Organization

June 12, 2026

Every organization has a tone. It is not the values statement on the website or the leadership principles on the conference room wall. It lives in actual leadership behavior: the decisions made when no one is watching, how mistakes are handled, whether employees are seen as human beings or reduced to functions. I spent nearly…

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